Modesty? Purity? Aren't those words a little old-fashioned for today's Christian woman? In a world that thrives on self-promotion and showing it all, it can feel like those virtues are relics of the past, dusty rules better left on the shelves of history. But Esther Angaro is here to shatter that misconception. She's a bold voice in a culture that often shouts a very different message, a woman of strength and conviction who believes that modesty and purity aren't outdated concepts; they're powerful weapons in the spiritual battle for our hearts and minds.
But what does that look like in a world saturated with sexuality? How can a Christian woman deal with the pressures to compete with other women, who expose, not being modest? Esther's journey provides a compelling answer, she's not just talking the talk; she's walking the walk - inspiring women everywhere to embrace their femininity without compromising their faith. We will dive deeper into Esther's story and discover the true beauty of modesty… and purity…
Imperfections Turned Pure
Picture this: a casual conversation with a friend takes an unexpected turn. "Why not post about this stuff on Instagram?" he suggests, referring to their discussion about sexual purity and God's design for intimacy. For Esther, an introvert by nature, the idea of sharing her faith journey felt like being thrust onto a stage with a spotlight blazing. Terror doesn't begin to describe it.
Yet, the seed was planted. After wrestling with the idea and seeking guidance in prayer, she felt an undeniable nudge from the Holy Spirit, a gentle yet persistent call to share her story. But what story was there to tell? She was just an ordinary Christian woman, striving for purity and modesty, yet still grappling with the same temptations and struggles as everyone else.
Little did she know that those very imperfections would become the catalyst for her ministry.
And the impact? Nothing short of extraordinary. Esther's ministry has touched thousands of lives, drawing struggling Christians closer to the heart of God. One story that particularly stands out is that of a teenage girl who, after enduring the trauma of sexual abuse and battling with lust and pornography, found hope and healing through Esther's vulnerability and authenticity. This young woman, once weighed down by shame and unworthiness, discovered a renewed relationship with God and a path towards freedom. This is the essence of Esther's calling.
"But he said to me, 'My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.' Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me." 1 (2 Corinthians 12:9-10) This verse beautifully encapsulates Esther's ministry, demonstrating how God can use our imperfections to reveal His glory and touch countless lives.
Esther on Her Moment of Divine Encounter
Imagine this: New Year's Eve, 2017. Esther, fresh from a salon appointment, finds herself running late as dusk descends. A friend from church offers a ride, but instead of heading home, the car takes an unexpected detour to a Vigil Mass. Not exactly the New Year's Eve plan Esther had in mind, but sometimes God's plans unfold in the most surprising ways.
Initially resistant, Esther reluctantly finds herself at the vigil, deciding to simply blend into the back row until the service ends. The hours pass in a blur, a mix of prayers and hymns washing over her. But then comes the moment of the Eucharist, a moment that will forever alter the course of Esther's life.
As everyone kneels, Esther follows suit, her gaze drawn to the Eucharist held aloft. And then, it happens. In a breathtaking instant, she sees Jesus. Not a vision, not a fleeting image, but a tangible presence that fills her with an overwhelming sense of awe and love. Tears stream down her face, a release of years of struggle and a surrender to the divine embrace that envelops her.
"I had been struggling with porn and masturbation for 6 years at that point," Esther confesses, recalling the darkness that had plagued her. "It was introduced to me by a family member, and I guess I just got addicted. I knew it was wrong, I hated it, but I just couldn't help myself." But in that sacred moment, everything changed.
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The encounter at the vigil marked a profound turning point in Esther's life, a moment of liberation and a newfound commitment to follow Jesus wholeheartedly. From that day forward, she dedicated herself to knowing more about the God who had so powerfully revealed Himself to her. It was a divine encounter that not only transformed her life but also ignited a passion within her to share her story and help others find freedom from the chains of lust and shame.
Tips For Dressing & Acting Modestly
Opt for Classic Silhouettes
Choose clothing with timeless styles like A-line skirts, maxi dresses, or tailored trousers. These pieces are elegant and flattering while maintaining modest coverage.
Layer Strategically
Use lightweight cardigans, shrugs, or undershirts to layer over outfits with shorter sleeves or necklines. This adds coverage without sacrificing style.
Emphasize Fabrics and Patterns
Choose high-quality fabrics like cotton, silk, or linen. Patterns like florals, polka dots, or stripes can add a playful yet polished look to modest clothing.
Wear Flattering Accessories
Add scarves, statement jewelry, or belts to elevate your look. Accessories can bring vibrancy to even the simplest outfits.
Find the Right Fit
Avoid clothes that are too tight or oversized. Well-fitted garments can look polished and feminine without being revealing.
Choose High Necklines and Longer Hemlines
Dresses and tops with boat necks, turtlenecks, or high collars offer modest coverage while remaining chic. Similarly, knee-length or longer skirts and dresses are universally flattering.
Focus on Colors and Layers
Experiment with earthy tones, pastels, or jewel tones. These colors can give an outfit a clean sophisticated vibe. Layering with a blazer or long cardigan also adds a graceful touch.
Cultivate Confidence Through Kindness
True beauty shines from within. Be kind, approachable, and attentive to others. These qualities are magnetic and elevate your presence.
Speak Gently and Respectfully
Modesty in actions also includes how you communicate. Speaking with humility, grace, and respect reflects inner strength and beauty.
Carry Yourself with Poise
Good posture, eye contact, and a confident smile project elegance and dignity. Modesty is about self-assurance, not shyness, and your demeanor should reflect this balance.
By blending modesty with your personal flair, you can create a look and presence that is both respectful and beautiful.
Reflecting on Esther's Encounter:
Have you ever experienced a moment where you felt God's presence in a tangible way? How did that encounter impact your life and faith?
How can we cultivate an openness to experiencing God's presence in our everyday lives?
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How will we dress and act modestly while still feeling like we’re able to compete?
"Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!" (2 Corinthians 5:17) 1 New Wardrobe Time!
Samaritan Woman At The Well
For Esther, the story of the Samaritan woman at the well, found in John 4:5-30, isn't just a passage in the Bible; it's a mirror reflecting her own journey of encounter and transformation. This story, etched in her heart, speaks of a woman ostracized and judged, yet met with unexpected grace and acceptance by Jesus.
"Just like Jesus went out of His way to connect with the Samaritan woman, He did the same for me!" Esther exclaims, her voice filled with gratitude. She sees herself in this woman, a woman burdened by shame and past mistakes, yet yearning for acceptance and a fresh start. And just as Jesus extended grace and compassion to the Samaritan woman, He did the same for Esther, meeting her in her struggle with lust and offering a new path forward. A modest path forward.
Fun Fact: The story of the Samaritan woman is unique in that it's the only instance in the Gospels where Jesus explicitly reveals His identity as the Messiah to someone before they recognize Him.
Reflecting on Esther's Favorite Scripture:
What scriptures resonate most deeply with you and your personal journey of faith?
When does Jesus reveal Himself to you?
How can we, like Jesus, extend grace and acceptance to those who may feel ostracized or judged by society?
"Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." (Matthew 11:28)
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Esther on Sustaining Motivation Through Faith
Living a life of modesty and purity can feel like swimming upstream in today's culture. We're bombarded with messages that contradict our values, and it's easy to feel isolated, tempted to just go with the flow, even if that flow leads us away from God. But Esther, despite the challenges, remains excited in her commitment. Her secret? A rock-solid understanding of her purpose that fuels her every step.
"No matter what other work I do, none of it will matter if I don't share about my faith," she reflects. For Esther, faith isn't just a personal journey; it's a mission, a calling to be a light in the world. Every achievement, every success, is nothing in comparison to the joy of sharing God's truth drawing others closer to Him.
Fun Fact: Studies have shown that having a sense of purpose in life is linked to greater well-being, stronger resilience, and even improved physical health.
Esther views her online presence not as a platform for self-promotion, but as a God-given opportunity to spread His message of love and redemption. She understands that true fulfillment comes not from chasing worldly accolades, but from living a life that glorifies God and impacts eternity.
Reflecting on Esther's Motivation:
What motivates you to live a life of faith, especially when it feels challenging or counter-cultural?
How can you cultivate a deeper sense of purpose in your life, rooted in your relationship with God?
How can you use your talents and platforms to share God's love and make a positive impact on the world?
"Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters." Colossians 3:23
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Peace & Devotionals
In a world of endless distractions and fleeting trends, cultivating a deep and abiding relationship with God can feel like trying to grow a delicate flower in a hurricane. But Esther, amidst the chaos of modern life, has discovered a powerful tool to nurture her spiritual growth and stay rooted in her faith: devotionals.
For Esther, devotionals aren't just about checking off a religious to-do list; they're about encountering God in a personal and transformative way. Her favorite devotional, "Bible in a Year" by Father Mike Schmitz, has become a lifeline, guiding her through the scriptures and deepening her understanding of God's Word. "The podcast helps connect the Old and New Testaments," she explains, "providing a comprehensive view of God's salvation plan."
Fun Fact: Did you know that the practice of daily devotionals dates back centuries, with roots in monastic traditions and the desire to set aside dedicated time for prayer, meditation, and spiritual reflection? Even in today's fast-paced world, this ancient practice continues to offer a powerful way to connect with God and cultivate inner peace.
Esther encourages others to deepen their relationship with God through daily meditation on Scripture and prayer, particularly through the practice of praying the rosary. She finds that using a devotional to engage with Scripture helps keep God's promises at the forefront of her mind, providing strength and guidance throughout the day. Meditating on the life of Christ through the rosary has also been transformative for her spiritual walk, providing a deeper connection to the mysteries of His life, death, and resurrection.
"Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path." Psalm 119:105
Have A Lust Problem?
Esther’s advice for those struggling with their faith or battling with lust is simple yet profound: pray. “Prayer is always the answer,” she asserts. She emphasizes that seeking God through prayer is crucial for navigating tough times and living a righteous life.
“Our God is not dead,” she says. “He still hears prayers. He still answers them. So pray to Him to help your Faith, and believe it when I say He won’t fail.”
Call to me and I will answer you, and tell you great and unsearchable things you do not know. Jeremiah 33:3 – 3
Holding prayer in such high regard. You must. Esther is an advocate for integrating prayer into one’s life. Her approach to integrating prayer into her busy schedule is a practical guide to living a prayer-driven life in today’s modern world. Following apostle Paul’s teaching; pray without ceasing, Esther prioritizes prayer in her everyday life and encourages her followers to do the same.
“Make prayer a part of your life, not just when you struggle with faith. Make sure to pray daily even if on days you have a busy schedule. Wake up an hour earlier if you have to. Pray during commutes. Pray before sleep. Pray whenever. Pray however. Just make sure you pray.”
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Don't Forget to:
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Monitor Your Inputs: Be mindful of what you watch, listen to, and read. Avoid content that triggers unhealthy desires or thoughts. Replace these with uplifting and inspiring material that aligns with your values.
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Memorize Scripture or Affirmations: Meditate on verses or affirmations that encourage purity and strength, such as Philippians 4:8: “Whatever is true, noble, right, pure, lovely, admirable—think about such things.”
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Build a Routine: Fill your day with purposeful activities, like hobbies, exercise, or volunteering. A productive lifestyle leaves less room for temptations.
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Stay Accountable: Share your struggles with a trusted friend, mentor, or counselor who can pray for you, encourage you, and keep you accountable in a judgment-free way.
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Practice Self-Control: Train your mind and body through small acts of discipline, such as fasting or setting boundaries with technology and relationships.
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Understand Your Worth: Recognize that your identity and value come from being a beloved child of God. This perspective can help shift your focus away from fleeting desires and toward lasting fulfillment.
Conclusion
As I reflect on Esther’s journey, I am encouraged to continually pursue purity, embrace modesty, and share my own story of faith. Her example challenges me to:
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Pray More: The hustle and bustle of modern life can often leave us with so little spare time. But this shouldn’t stop me from doing what counts. It shouldn’t stop you either. Esther encourages us to make an active effort to seek God’s face in prayer and spend some time in His presence. A little prayer can do great things for our faith and our fight against lust.
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Dwell More in the Presence God: Yes, Esther’s divine encounter was a gift from God, but if she hadn’t been at that faithful vigil, she probably wouldn’t have had her divine encounter. You never know!
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Be Bold in Sharing My Testimony: Every Christian is called to preach the Good News of Salvation. We have all been called to testify to the goodness of God and the love he has for the world. If someone as shy as she was could do it, then so too can we!
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Stay Grounded in Scripture: The scripture is the foundation on which every modern Christian stands. Esther’s story encourages me, and you dear reader, to remain rooted in it.
May we, too, allow our lives to shine brightly, drawing others to the transformative love of Christ. Let Esther’s example remind us that no matter where we start, God’s grace is always sufficient to lead us to a place of deep connection and impact. Through the grace and guidance of the Holy Spirit, let us all strive to live lives that reflect His love and truth.
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